The Thinking Other Woman

What you should know BEFORE your affair.
 

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A Piece of Wisdom

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 24, 2021 at 11:05 AM

How much do we need to surrender and how often do we need to take initiative in our lives?


When to surrender? When you have no control. When you have control, take initiative.


I'm the one with no control, here, so I'm surrendering. How about taking some initiative instead of surrendering, yourself??

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I Keep Getting This Message, So I'm Going To Post This

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 17, 2021 at 10:30 AM

No point saying what the message is that I keep getting, but because of it, I have to post this message to you:

NO, you didn't ruin this, my life, or anything like that. Simultaneously ...


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I have NO idea whether this is true or not, but ...

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 13, 2021 at 5:40 PM

So.



As anyone who reads here knows, I've gotten into occultism.


It's anyone's guess whether this is accurate on an objective basis, but I've found enough wisdom in it that I'm taking it under advisement. Especially when I'm given to understand something over and over again, I'm going to pay it...

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News

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 2, 2021 at 11:30 PM

Charlie, maybe you missed it, but I sent you an email.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on November 2, 2021 at 1:40 PM

Hi! Thanks for stopping by. I got your contact form, and sorry, but I don't know a Charlie. I'm not the droid you're looking for. :(

DON'T BE STUPID: What I'm Given To Understand Now

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on October 30, 2021 at 5:25 PM
So in the wake of interesting occurrences this month--when Mercury, Mars, and the Sun all
 hovered over his Venus conjunct North Node--I'm getting some interesting card readings.
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11:40 pm, direct to What the Fuck, Oct 21st.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on October 22, 2021 at 12:05 AM

Was this you? 



I Passed Up The Opportunity To Take Up An Affair Where It Left Off

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on October 21, 2021 at 11:40 PM

... And man, am I glad I did.

My four-month emotional affair with a married man ended six years ago last May.


I wish I could tell you that I went triumphantly on, that I met the love of my life, that I’m happily married now, that life morphed into something wonderful.


No. ...

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Horoscopes. Card readings. They're real.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on October 8, 2021 at 4:50 AM

This will be short, because I'm supposed to be asleep.

Since I posted the new message on Resources You Are Looking For and Will My XXXXXXX Area Visitor Please Stand Up, SOMEone has come directly to those postings (I can't even find them without using the search function on here!), seen the heading, and, once again, scat like light. He didn't even read the whole message. BUT, he HAS come back to l...

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WHAT THE FUCK????

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on September 22, 2021 at 10:45 PM

OK, I'm thoroughly confused.

This is the THIRD time someone on a mobile has come on the site, not gone to the main blog page and searched, or gone to any other page, and entered the site straight on one of the messages I posted up here for him, then gone straight to the other,

Google Analytics tells me this person is in PARIS. 

PARIS. What the fuck???

How are people doing this? Going str...

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First Day of the First, Last Window.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on September 15, 2021 at 7:35 PM

Either: The cards and the major line of transits are all right, he really does miss me, and he’ll let me know that either in the next 45 days, or approximately a six week window in May-June of next year… or that’s just incorrect and it will never happen.


 

I’m betting that it will...

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Where The Rubber Meets The Road

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on September 8, 2021 at 11:35 PM

Looking along the long vista of transits I've researched, we're reaching the point of no return pretty soon, here. Even other people's card readings are saying the same thing. The next six to eight months are the fork in the road.

We've gone so long without speaking, we're on the point of just giving up on this connection. Which would make sense to anyone; I know I am. I mean, let's face it: When you haven't seen someone's face in six years and haven't ...

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People Shouldn't Say Tarot Is Useless.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on August 19, 2021 at 12:45 AM

 

So I've stumbled onto this YouTube channel where this cute little gay guy does some brutally honest tarot readings. Among some interesting concepts: This is a spiritual connection where the goal is personal growth and becoming healthy, not romance, and only if we heal enough do we get the romance. For Chi, the obstacle is lack of self worth, but for me the problem is this misconception of love as being pining and devotion instead of caring enough ab...

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No Comment.

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on August 15, 2021 at 6:50 PM

Me:

Creative Process spread. 

(I hate the William Blake tarot, but that's what I ended up with.)

Creative force behind the process: Imagination card.

Emotion: Two of poetry.

Thought: Energy card.

Manifestation: Angel of painting.

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2022--Or, You Will Feel Brilliant For Moments At A Time

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on August 11, 2021 at 1:40 PM
***Note: I had originally elected not to publish this for a while, if ever. But then
I realized the process of contemplation and the realizations it led me to are 
important even if the 
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WHY DID THIS HAPPEN?

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on July 22, 2021 at 1:45 PM

Hi. I know I write about studying the occult in respect to affairs a lot and most people believe it's crap.

However, mulling over what a reading says has, on occasion, CHANGED MY LIFE.


I realize now that both of us are working on developing and mastering FEELINGS OF WORTH.


I have to master feeling w...

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And Heeeeere's Why Astrology Can't Predict Outcomes 100% Of The Time!

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on July 1, 2021 at 9:15 PM

So: I left the last couple of messages on here. And I see where this person came on, saw the first one, and scat like light. If he's been back since, I can't pick him out on Google Analytics.


Yet, I keep getting ALL THESE READINGS that suggest I haven't seen the last of this person, and that there is MUCH more to come.


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Tarot

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on July 1, 2021 at 6:25 PM
Me: Hagall spread. Reveals the path of spiritual growth in difficult situations.

Central issue: Knight of Cups. (Really?)
Something you did to bring the situation about: Six of Cups (yes, that's right.)
My beliefs, impressions, expectations: Six of swords reversed (and so is that.)
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Tarot

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on June 5, 2021 at 1:20 PM

Me:

Hagall Spread.

Central Issue: Eight of Swords (I quite agree.)

Something I did to bring the situation about: Page of Cups. (no shit)

My beliefs, impressions, or expectations: Hierophant, reversed. (maybe not.)

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Just Meanderings About Where I'm At

Posted by The Thinking Other Woman on May 16, 2021 at 11:40 AM

Here I am staring at what has and hasn't transpired and going: What the hell?

 

There's no doubt, looking at their transits, that the ultimate fate of that marriage will be decided about two years from now. Stand or fall, stay together or leave, happily or unhappily. In the meantime, the person who so ...

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